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So about a month ago (exactly 29 days) a conflict resurfaced between Israel and Palestine which caused a lot of damages, fear, compassion and hatred all around the world so I just wanted to cover that because it does touch me to see such cruelty in 2014. (more…)

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This Month, Only In The USA

Posted: 1 August 2014 in Uncategorized

Great take on the current events, learned a lot as always !

So I’m back, I guess ! I mean, doing this blog has taught me so much about myself and others that I kinda lost myself in the process, that is why I didn’t write any post for two long months, although it feels more like a year. I kept checking your coments and the visits but I didn”t felt like writing anything until last week, but then I decided not to, because what would you guys think of me if I was back just like that and then it hit me last night, talking to a friend, I understood why I started this blog.

It wasn’t for the position that I could get out of it, it wasn’t for the money (anyway I didn’t make any since I didn’t take the time to put adds on the blog), it  wasn’t for the attention, it wasn’t even for you guys, it was because I believed that I was different (as we all do) and I still believe that I could do better, be better than the person I was yesterday, but let’s get back to the talk I had with that friend. I was talking to him and I realized how stupid we were, not the two of us, but Human Beings in general; the truth is that we all feel insecure inside and we all want more and the guy was in deep, talking about how he went through all sorts of dramas (and I must say he was true, he went through some serious deep shit that probably none of us been through) and he kept on going about how miserable his life was and how he was soon to be 30 and that he didn’t accomplish anything and it hit me right there ! the reason why he felt like this was because he was running against the world, a race against everybody but looking to everyone running in front of him. The reason why he felt so bad was because he didn’t learned his lesson, he didn’t care about the man he became, he cared about the man he wished to be, he didn’t care about all the things he had, he cared about all the things he didn’t possess, the long list of things he didn’t have, didn’t do, and that all the people he saw had.  So why am I writing this post ? because I want to, because I don’t care about what people think, because I want to share my vision.

What if you could have eveything, everything that you ever wanted to possess without doing anything. Would you ? would that make of you a better person than you are today ? would that make you any different ? I mean when he stated that he was being real with me and that he wasn’t depressed or anything, just being true I got mad, because there is only one thing you gotta do to realize that your life might not be that bad, it’s to turn on your television, now I see you coming with your big preconceived  ideas on life, that this is not the same and blablabla but let’s be honest for a second get to the huffington post, the new york times, the daily mail  or any news website (not the people section lol) and start reading not like the person you are but starts reading as if it was you there, start reading as if you were the person getting bombed at school, eating your breakfast, dying at age 5, losing your family, your friends, being forced to leave your country, your home and now wonder : is my life that miserable ?

Take a step back and instead of pointing your little finger to others, put it towards yourself and ask yourself the right questions. Because let’s face it you are the only master of your destiny, you always have a choice even if you don’t think so, you always have a choice !

I’m a firm believer that God (life or the universe if you’re not a believer) has a plan for all of us (btw on that topic you MUST read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, I hate reading and books but this one is so good it should be crowned book of the century) and that along that road we take choices that will get us to where we want to head but that the plan is flexible around the decisions that we make. Like a car, we can take a left, we can take a right, we can go straight, sometimes we crash but we recover, the only difference is WE CAN’T GO BACK.

Anyway, I don’t even know why I wrote this, after the talk my friend kept his ideas and I kept mine, and we both felt frustrated, him because of his “miserable” life and me because I was right here next to him trying my best to sheer him up, to make him change, to help him but he was so focused on what he didn’t have that he didn’t see me there or maybe he didn’t care. Today is a great day to start over so I’m back, I’m here so let’s get this shit started (humm RE started) !

K.

 

On point as always

liv for the city

So you applied to hundreds of jobs online, but after getting nowhere, you ended up following my advice and booked a trip to the City of dreams. Congratulations! You are now about to enter phase two of the New York job hunt: the part where you network your a$$ off!

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Never ever been to Manhattan or any of the five boroughs? The first thing you need is a point of reference to get your networking game on. There must be someone in this town who is somehow related to you: that guy you sat next to in College who always posts pictures of the skyline on Facebook, or your sister’s friend who started her own business here…It’s time to put that six degree of separation theory into practice!

Any occasion can be an excuse to network in New York, that’s why you should never turn down an invite. When I…

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liv for the city

Settling in New York can be a long process, and although networking is king here, you should not wait until you put down your bags to let the job hunt begin.

Unless you have a company in your home country or somewhere else in the States that offers to transfer you to New York and takes care of everything, you will most likely need to be in town to nail a job. But being an active job hunter in the City comes with limited time. As if the expensive price of life wasn’t enough, we foreigners are only allowed to stay 3 months on a tourist visa before being sent back to our mama’s crib!

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That’s why applying to jobs online prior to your arrival seems like the smart thing to do. When I decided to come back to New York as a working girl and no longer an exchange…

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Hey yall readers just a little word to tell you guys that i’m still here even though it’s been 5 days since I haven’t posted anything (which btw is not like me) but everything’s been pretty hectic lately trying to find a place to stay in NYC, trying to find a job and prepping my travel to the US but don’t worry I’m there and everything will get back to normal really soon.

Love you all and thank you for liking my blog so much !

PS: Got another GIF for yall and you guys don’t ever forget

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Rita Ora is greeting the fans today because not only did she release the audio of her new hit single but she also released the video and we got it for you guys with the lyrics right under. (more…)

Well this season of PLL sure ended with some shocking revelations !!! So if you don’t want to hear anything about it STOP READING HERE ! (more…)

Holly Holiday is apparently back in Glee for the 100th episode and other stars are expected such as Chace Crawford and Kristin Chenoweth. (more…)

Keira looks stunning in the new ad campaign for Coco Mademoiselle by Chanel. This one is the third one staring the gorgeous actress, directed by Joe wright. (more…)